Profile Updates : Virtual Dating Assistants realized that there was a correlation between updating client profiles and receiving unsolicited winks and emails.
They discovered that when you make a minor update to a profile that is then sent to review by a site moderator then you are moved to the top of some of the sites’ search engines.
“Basically, they’ve got an algorithm,” Scott revealed, “that puts some serious weight on the freshness of the profile content.” Vi DA’s clients received four times as many “winks” when they started doing daily profile updates.
And according to Valdez, building traffic to your profile is key…
For example, you could be diving into a pool or jumping in the air to spike a volleyball.
: Choosing the photos to use can be really tough but last year Ok Cupid released a user-driven web app called My Best Face that will help you to quickly narrow in on the keepers and eliminate the duds.
The app allows you to upload photos for the other members to vote on.
Data collected by Virtual Dating Assistants revealed that while women of all ages respond well to humor, women in their early 30s and above responded well to longer, more thoughtful emails that expressed genuine interest.
Women in their 20s rejected these more serious emails, preferring even some slight cockiness - or what some dating coaches call the “Cocky & Funny” approach.